Hey there, my fellow singles! 💕

I know that online dating can be exciting, fun and the perfect way to meet new people. But it can also be intimidating, overwhelming, and even dangerous if you’re not careful. That’s why in this blog, I’m going to share with you 10 common red flags in online dating profiles that you need to know to avoid being catfished, scammed, or heartbroken.

Are you ready to dive in? Let’s do it! 🌊

1. No Profile Picture 📷

If you come across a profile that doesn’t have a profile picture, or the picture looks suspicious or blurry, it’s a red flag. Why wouldn’t someone want to show their face when looking for a potential partner? Also, if they only have one picture, it might be fake or stolen from someone else.

A picture of a silhouette with no face on a dating app

2. Incomplete or Vague Profile Information 🤷

If the person’s profile doesn’t have enough information, or the information is too vague, it’s a sign that they’re not serious about finding a relationship and might be hiding something. Also, if they don’t fill in basic information such as height, weight, or occupation, they might be lying.

A person with a blurred face and incomplete info tabs on a dating app

3. Conflicting or Unrealistic Information 🤔

If you notice that the person’s profile has conflicting or unrealistic information, like their age, location, or interests, it’s a red flag. It could be a sign that they’re trying to manipulate or deceive you.

A person with a red flag above their head and a laptop - implying a fake profile or someone trying to deceive

4. Only Looking for a Hookup 💔

If the person’s profile only talks about hookups, casual sex, or one-night stands, it’s a clear indication that they’re not looking for a serious relationship. If a relationship is what you want, skip this profile altogether.

A broken or heart emoji with an arrow through it, implying that someone is only looking for a hookup

5. Too Many Selfies 🤳

If the person’s profile is full of selfies, it could be a sign that they’re self-absorbed, insecure, or even a fake profile. Also, if all their pictures look too perfect or edited, they might be hiding something.

A person holding a selfie stick with multiple phones, showcasing too many selfies

6. Negative or Hostile Language 😠

If the person’s profile uses negative language, talks about their ex, or seems hostile towards a particular group, it’s a clear indication that they have some issues that need to be resolved first. Chances are it will lead to more conflicts and drama in the future.

A person with a red circle around them, with negative or hostile language coming out of their head

7. No Online Footprint 🚶

If you can’t find the person’s online footprint outside of the dating app, it could be a red flag. It’s always a good idea to do some research about the person, Google them, and see if their digital profile matches their dating profile. If there’s no online footprint, this might be a fake profile.

A person with missing puzzle pieces around them, implying a lack of a digital footprint

8. Request for Money 💰

If someone you just met on a dating app asks you for money or gifts, it’s a clear sign that they’re trying to scam you. Don’t fall for it, and report the profile right away.

A person holding out a hand with a money bag emoji next to them, implying that someone is asking for money or gifts

9. Refusing to Video Call 📞

If the person you’re talking to refuses to video call or meet in person, it could be a clear indication that they’re hiding something, or they’re not who they say they are. It’s always a good idea to verify the person’s identity before meeting them in real life.

A person with a phone in front of their face, implying they're refusing to video chat or meet in person

10. Inconsistent or Slow Response Times 🕰️

If the person you’re talking to takes forever to reply or gives you inconsistent responses, it could be a sign that they’re not interested or they’re talking to too many people at once. It’s always a good idea to have a conversation with them about your expectations and communication style.

A person with a clock emoji above their head, with inconsistent or slow response times coming out of their phone

And that’s it, my lovely single friends! I hope these 10 red flags help you stay safe and find the perfect match online. Remember to trust your gut, do your research, and always put your safety first. Happy dating! 🥳

A heart-shaped emoji, surrounded by all the red flag emojis mentioned in the blog