Healing the Distance: Advice for Reconnecting with Your Long Distance Partner
Hey there, lovelorn adventurer! ❤️
Long distance relationships are not easy by any means, but they are filled with wonder, excitement and anticipation. Sadly, distance can sometimes cause a rift in communication lines and create an emotional distance as well. Fear not though! with just a few tips and tricks, you can mend the bridge. Here are some pieces of advice to help you reconnect with your long-distance partner.
Rule #1: Keep the Communication Lines Open
Communication is key in any relationship, and especially in long-distance relationships. You and your partner should have clear lines of communication that work for both of you. Pro Tip: If you are unable to obtain 24/7 access to each other, agree on a set time where both of you can communicate at least once a day. This can be a call, a text, or even a video chat. This will give you both something to look forward to daily, and will also give you a chance to catch up on each other’s day.
Rule #2: Get Creative with Your Communication
Communication doesn’t always have to be straightforward. Be playful and sweet with your communication style and get creative 💡. Sending pictures, voice notes, handwritten letters and care packages can be a great way to keep the spark alive and bring you closer. Pro Tip: Pick a book or show that you both enjoy and read or watch it together. Discuss your thoughts and feelings in depth as you reach each milestone. This will add a new dimension to your communication and will give you something to bond over.
Rule #3: Make Time for Each Other
Making time for your partner is always important, but it is even more critical when your relationship is long-distance. Schedule regular visits whenever possible and do things over the phone or internet together. Watch a movie, play video games, or even cook a meal together as if you both are in the same location. Pro Tip: Plan surprise visits every now and then if it is possible. This will keep the excitement alive, show your partner that you care and give you both something to look forward to.
Rule #4: Keep an Open Mind
Long-distance relationships are not for everyone, and different people have different takes and experiences on them. Be open and honest about your feelings with your partner. Talk to each other and figure out what works for both of you. Pro Tip: Share your insecurities, anxieties and fears with your partner. This will show them that they are not alone in their struggles and will help to deepen the emotional connection between you both.
Long-distance relationships may seem tough, but they can be successful with the right kind of effort and commitment. Keep the lines of communication open, get creative with your communication, make time for each other and keep an open mind. Hopefully, these tips will help you to stay connected with your long-distance partner. If all else fails, remember that the distance is only temporary, and the love between you both will be stronger than ever. 💖