Are you in a long distance relationship? Don’t worry! I know how it feels. Loving someone who’s not physically present can be tough. But did you know that long distance relationships can be just as fulfilling and rewarding as any other relationship? It’s true! In fact, long distance relationships have become more common in this digital age, thanks to video calls, messaging apps, and social media.

But keeping a long distance relationship healthy and thriving takes time, effort, and commitment on both parties. With that being said, here are some tips that can help you keep your long distance relationship strong and healthy:

1. Communicate regularly 🤝💬

Communication is the key to any successful relationship, and it’s especially important when you’re miles apart. Make sure you have regular check-ins with each other, whether it’s through phone calls, video chats, or messaging apps. It’s important to take the time to catch up on each other’s day, share your thoughts and feelings, and just talk about anything and everything.

One way to make communication more engaging is to have virtual date nights. Plan to watch a movie or TV show at the same time and discuss it afterwards, cook and eat the same meal, or even play a game together. This will help you feel connected and make it feel like you’re still doing things together.

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2. Set goals and plan visits 🗓️🚗✈️

Long distance relationships can be tough if you don’t have something to look forward to. Setting goals and planning visits can help give you both something to work towards and be excited about.

Whether you’re planning a vacation together or just a weekend visit, having a set date in mind can help ease the ache of being apart. Make sure to plan in advance for those visits and create a detailed itinerary. This will help you maximize the time you have together and make the most out of your trips.

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3. Trust each other 🙏🕊️

Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship, and it’s even more crucial when you’re apart. It’s important to trust that your partner is faithful, honest, and committed to your relationship.

Trust can be built through open communication, being transparent about your feelings and actions, and having regular check-ins. Trust can also be built when couples experience success in handling conflict especially with physical distance in between. In fact, there are many couples who credit their stronger connection to their successful way of handling fights.

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4. Keep the romance alive 💕💐

Even if you’re not physically together, you can still keep the romance alive in your relationship. Send each other thoughtful gifts, surprise your partner with a sweet message or a photo, and be creative with expressing your love. Some couple watch movies on Netflix together, while other couples send each other letters, postcards, and care packages, and others include a sexy time through video chat. All of these efforts will show your partner how much you care and how much you value your relationship.

It is important also to understand your partner’s love language, as that is the best way to express what they feel inside. Some people prefer physical gifts, while others value simple but heartfelt messages. It’s up to you to know what works for your partner and for your relationship.

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5. Take care of yourself 🧘🏻‍♀️🌞

It’s easy to feel sad and stressed in a long distance relationship, but it’s important to take care of yourself and your mental health. Find activities that make you happy and give you a sense of purpose, such as exercising, reading, and pursuing your hobbies.

Meditation, yoga or mindfulness practices can help you lower your anxiety and improve your mood. It is important to look at self-care as an investment, not just on the relationship but for your personal self, to have a long-lasting peace of mind and healthy functioning of the brain.

Remember, a healthy relationship also requires two healthy individuals.

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So there you have it, my tips for maintaining a healthy long distance relationship. While it can be tough, with the right attitude and effort, a long distance relationship can be just as fulfilling as any other relationship. It is important to always find a balance between being romantic and taking things seriously as any other relationship. So keep the love alive, and don’t forget to have fun along the way! ❤️🥰

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